The main course would likely have been Chicken Vienne – a recipe torn from a long forgotten magazine in the last century. With powdered thyme and pepper in the breadcrumbs, and sautéed in butter, it was sublime. I have no photo of that, but it was reminiscent of schnitzel. (And speaking of schnitzel – I really miss the schnitzel from The Coffee Mill in TO, which closed in 2014 after a half century.) What did I serve with the Chicken Vienne? Maybe rice pilaf and honeyed carrots.
Dessert was often trifle. A hilarious made-up recipe: cut up a purchased pound cake and place it in the trifle bowl; make a small packet of raspberry Jell-O and pour that over, letting it soak in; cover that with a drained can of fruit cocktail, a layer of cooked Bird’s custard and then a layer of freshly whipped cream. Everyone seemed to like it.
I cannot recall varying that menu much, though I must have to spare guests from repetition. These days, my menus reflect a greater variety and I never repeat the same one twice..
Today, I love to plan dinner parties, and most are for groups of women. I begin thinking about the menu weeks in advance, and have created a template that I use for menu planning. I do not like to be rushed or overworked and so my planning outlines things that can be done up to three days ahead, and then on the day - if all goes well - I am not hidden in the kitchen with last minute cooking.
A good friend mentioned that she has a book where she has recorded the menu for every dinner party she ever had. That would be precious! Jacques Pépin does that – and the pages in his keepsake are embellished with his artwork.
The NYT article offers up dinner party trivia – records of dinner parties that made people famous, began movements or destroyed reputations and careers.
Interspersed among the stories are “fantasy dinner party” questionnaires. Here are my answers.
Whom would you invite to your dream dinner party?
Turns out that answering this is considered to be a fun activity and the internet is filled with people’s answers. Of all the NYT questions I found this to be the toughest and my answer is long - don’t worry, answers to the other questions are short. How to decide? I did not necessarily choose people I admire most - some of them might be intimidating at a dinner party. Luminaries and creatives are not guaranteed to be charming. Some I would prefer to invite to afternoon tea for a more quiet chat.
For my dream dinner party, I want guests who’d be warm, good conversationalists, with a sense of humour, willing to invest in the good cheer of all. No one depressing. No conceit or self-centredness. Diplomacy vs. provocation. I'm a political junkie, but would prefer no politics. No one who comes with a Secret Service entourage. They should be interesting, be curious, have a good story and tell a good story, with maybe a mensch quality.
I’m not sure I’ve got this list right, and realize that many of my choices seem to come from radio or TV, from CBC, BBC – such as guests on BBC’s Graham Norton Show. They are people I have seen or heard talking. I can hear their voice and how they might add to the dinner party chorus. This all assumes that their public persona has some authenticity.
2024 Update. Of late I have been listening to the Podcast Rosebud - hosted by Gyles Brandreth. At some point in the last 6 years, I encountered him on BBC’s QI. Gyles is infamous for having a story for everything – though I never tire of listening to him. It came to mind that he’d be a great addition to my fantasy Dinner Party, hence a re-read of this which led to a re-write. No one who ever read the original blog post will recall who was on that llst. It pains me to drop names and for every new name added, I can think of many more.
In no particular order, here are the guests for my fantasy dinner party (some living, some not) - and I may need a bigger table.
Gyles Brandreth, Sandi Toksvig, Michael Palin, Ruth Reichl, Joanna Lumley, Stephen Fry, Emma Thompson, Jamie Oliver, Jacques Pépin, Peter Ustinov, Nora Ephron, Christopher Hitchens, Ian McKellen - AND I’d have a Newfoundland contingent, having noted before my inexplicable penchant for all things NL - Rick Mercer, Gordon Pinsent; a few more Canadians - Gavin Crawford, Terry O’Reilly and Ryan Reynolds (mainly because of his part in the Wrexham TV series).
(Gosh, this is “oh so white”. Would be less so if I invited only amazing chefs. Lots of folks from the UK - too much BBC, Acorn and BritBox? Few artists/musicians, few chefs, no locals, not enough women…)
I’m starting to think a series of dinner parties would work better.
What food would you serve?
Elements of the menu might be a bit fancy, but not too edgy and it would have European roots, mainly Hungarian. I’d end with one of my Hungarian showstopper desserts – Somloi Galuska, or Gundel Palacsinta (neither of which are on the blog yet – oh dear…)
Where would you host it?
My house, which is old with outdated décor - ideally after dark, with low lighting.
What would you drink?
Choices would include: Prosecco, Niagara and Prince Edward County Wines, and this great cocktail. Here’s your recipe to go with this blog post: ½ oz Sortilege (Canadian Whiskey and maple syrup liqueur), ½ oz Berentzen Apfelkorn, 1/3 oz Dekuper Buttershots and 3 oz fresh cider, mix with ice.) 2024 update - I’d add some alcohol-free cocktails since I no longer imbibe.
What sort of music would you play?
Figuring that out could drive a person crazy. The easiest would be a Pink Martini playlist. They are my favourite group and I am counting down to their next Toronto appearance in May.
How would you get people to leave?
Not sure if that would be a problem. I'd play, the Beatles song “Goodnight”.
So, there you have it! Read more about dinner parties – some planned and some spontaneous, some formal, some simple fondues - in the NYT article. How would you answer some of the dinner party questions? Use Comments to share your dinner party stories! Wishing you happy and delicious parties in 2018!